Moral babies, or born to be wild? (Nov 07)
Friday, 23 November 2007 12:29Daily Telegraph,
Moral babies or born to be wild?
A new study suggests that babies can differentiate between good and bad behaviour from as early as six months. Psychologist
Babies are born with one thing: an instinct to survive
Babies are born helpless. Their survival depends on other people. Babies can make their distress known to others, but those people won't necessarily respond in the way the baby needs. To survive, babies need to be able to assess whether an adult will be helpful or not. So do toddlers, for whom being able to read feelings is essential.
My own mother had an erratic, explosive, dangerous temper which she usually vented on me; my survival depended on being able to read her danger signs.
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Identifying good guys and bad guys is necessary for a baby's survival - and for our own as adults - but that ability alone doesn't make them, or us, innately moral. To develop a conscience, a baby has to form a bond with someone who mothers him. When a baby does form a bond, he wants his mother's love and approval. He soon realises, albeit unconsciously, that, as he is, he is unsatisfactory. He has to work hard to be what his mother considers "good" - which is not necessarily something off the usual list of virtues (courage, truth, honesty, loyalty…). Indeed, there are as many moralities as there are people to hold them.
Babies who have no opportunity to form such a bond, however, fail to develop a conscience. Not all become criminals — many become lawyers, politicians or successful business people.
As adults, our assessment of the potential degree of help another person will give us depends on our understanding of what psychologists call the Theory of Mind. We can never experience another person's thoughts and feelings directly, but most of us believe that other people have similar thoughts and feelings to us. The question psychologists ask is, when do we acquire the Theory of Mind? Many believe that the potential to recognise other people's feelings is present at birth.
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